Short on Time? Here’s How to Handle a Quick Engagement

The decision to get married is one of the most important choices most people make in life. Some couples spend years planning their future together while others see no reason to wait any longer and jump right in with no regrets.

There are no set rules when it comes to the length of the engagement, but it’s important to remember that the bigger and more complex the wedding is, the more time it takes to plan. There are a lot of things that need to be coordinated, so it makes sense to begin booking as early as possible.

According to The Knot, the average engagement period is around 14 months – or a little over a year. Some people take longer, but for couples hoping to tie the knot on a particular date or those who have another reason to expedite the process, the limited time available for planning can be a problem.

If your anticipated wedding date is only a few months away, never fear! It is possible to pull off a dream wedding if you’re short on time. Here are some things to keep in mind as the big day quickly approaches.

#1 – Don’t panic!

If you are planning a short engagement, you need to act fast, but not too fast. Rushed planning often leads to mistakes, so taking the proper steps can help you minimize problems. Nearly everyone encounters some sort of scheduling snags when planning a wedding, so you’ll not only need to act quickly, but you’ll also have less time to make decisions and analyze alternatives.

#2 – Set a realistic budget

One of the biggest mistakes people make when planning weddings is underbudgeting. Since many people only plan one wedding in their lives, it’s easy to underestimate just how much things actually cost, and expenditures add up quick. On top of that, many vendors may charge more if you try to book on short notice – if they’re even still available – because it will require extra work on their part. It’s important to keep that in mind and temper expectations accordingly. This may be the biggest day of your life, but it’s up to you to decide how much of a financial burden you’re willing to take on to make that happen. It’s not hard to rack up some serious debt if you don’t stick to your budget, and that’s not a fun way to begin your new life as a couple.

#3 – Cover the basics

If you don’t already have the date set, now is the time to do that. The more flexibility you have here, the better. If you’re planning a quick engagement, it’s important to keep in mind that the more people you want to invite, the more schedules you’ll potentially have to work around. Flexible dates will also open up more options when it comes to venues and vendors.

In addition to picking a date, it’s now time to ask your attendants, find a venue, and a caterer. If you don’t know who to hire, ask friends or look online to see if there is a wedding network in the area. Another great option is calling your local florist because they often have close relationships with many vendors who will be able to offer suggestions.

Once you have the venue secured you can begin booking vendors such as the florist, officiant and, musicians. The next step is to pick out a dress because they can often take up to three months to arrive. If your engagement is brief, you might have to pick something off the rack and have it altered.

#4 – Choose the right vendors

Make sure to do your homework, ask friends and co-workers for suggestions. Once you have a few possibilities, check out their websites and social media to determine if their vibe and price point would be a good fit for your wedding style and budget.

Call each vendor you would like to potentially work with and find out first and foremost if they are available for your wedding day. If they are, set up a consultation as soon as possible. If they are not available ask them for a reference.

Make sure to review examples of the vendor’s work during your consultation. This will help you have an overall sense of what the vendor’s capabilities are. Be sure to ask, “What will you need from me prior, during, and after my wedding?” Lastly, find out who will be the person providing the service on the day of your wedding.

Now is also a good time to order your invitations, notify any out of town guests of the event, and book the honeymoon.

#5 – Dive into the details

Now that you have a date set in stone and a venue secured – and have also booked caterers, musicians, and officiants – it’s time to pay attention to the small details because they make a big difference when it comes to making your big day exceptional.

Remember that renting equipment doesn’t just include tables and chairs for your reception. You can also rent silk plants, candelabras, and ceremony extras like arches, for example.

Make sure that you choose a reputable company to assist you with equipment rental. Just like the other vendors you are contracting with, it is important to find a company that is known for the quality of their equipment and the reliability of their staff. Ask those closest to you for recommendations in addition to referrals from your florist or local wedding network.

To save time and potential headaches with this step, a good idea is to create a “wish list” of what you would like to reserve. Refer to your other vendor contracts for what they do and don’t provide as a starting place.

You should also be ready to pay a deposit and remember that this is traditionally one-third of the total package price. Also, be prepared to spend a chunk time – because now is the time to really focus on your bridal vision and get creative. Be ready to ask a lot of questions.

At this point you should also begin sending invitations, setting up wedding registries, picking out wedding bands and renting groom and attendants attire. Remember that out-of-town attendants will need to get fitted prior to the ceremony date and have their measurements sent to the shop you will be renting from.

#6 – Choose a photographer

One of the pivotal decisions that must be made by a bride and groom when planning their special day is the photographer. This is a very personal choice, especially when you consider this person will be hanging around you and your guests for a whole day. It’s important to be sure you like their photography style and are comfortable with their packages and pricing. Review full wedding albums and not just their highlight reels and ask a lot of questions if there are things you don’t understand.

Ultimately photographers are vendors you hire, so like the other companies you have contracted with, we suggest getting personal recommendations and check out local vendor sites.

Don’t forget to ask about:

  • Shooting fee
  • What is in each package
  • Additional costs like special effects or an engagement shoot
  • Your rights: In most contracts, photographers own the rights to all photos they take. If you want to order photos from another source you’ll probably have to buy the rights to the images.
  • Post wedding details: How long does it take to get proofs of your images? How many images should you expect? When are the photos retouched? Is that prior to getting your proofs or after selecting your images?

At this point in the planning process, you should also be reserving transportation, picking music, buying your attendant gifts and reserving a suite for your wedding night.

#7 – Piecing it all together

Now you’re in the final stretch, and it’s time to take care of things such as writing vows and determining what readings you will have in your ceremony and who will read them. This is also the time that you should be finalizing your menu, going for your final dress fitting, and attempting a dry-run of makeup and hair.

While you’re at it, get blood tests (if required by state) and a marriage license. It’s also a good time to make a seating chart and book house/pet sitter for the honeymoon.

#8 – The big day!

Even if you have done all the work yourself up until this point, it might be wise to hire a “day-of” wedding coordinator or enlist a trusted family member to handle any last-minute issues that arise because you’ll be too busy with other things to put out fires.

Just remember – there will be fires! In fact, you can almost count on some last-minute issues popping up on your big day – it happens to everyone.

The most important thing you can do is not let those things stress you out or take your focus off one of the most important days of your life. This day is all about you and your loved ones, but now is not the day for you to try to make everyone happy.

Thanks to your careful planning, everything will be fine and people will have fun! The day will be a blur and will be over before you know it, so make sure to take some time to enjoy it while you’re in the moment. Remember, your honeymoon is right around the corner!

Stay Connected With Family Throughout The Nation!

If you’re lucky your family members all live very close to you. If you’re anything like us at the flower shop, your family is spread out throughout the country! You don’t have to send flowers all the time, it could just be to say a quick “hello” or “I’m thinking about you”. Who doesn’t want to be remembered? There are lots of reasons to send a family member a flower arrangement or gift basket. Here’s a few reasons and ideas to send for such occasions!

1. Living Another Year Birthdays are celebrated because we want to acknowledge that we have lived another year. We mark the anniversary of the beginning of a life. We are joyous. We give gifts. We have cake and ice cream. And we blow out the candles and make a wish.Flowers for Birthdays:
Birthday Fireworks – Colorful flowers with a Mylar balloon.
Birthday Flowers
2. Graduating Whether it’s high school or college, graduating is earned by hard work. We honor those who strive to make the most of their lives through education and gifts are usually generous for the graduate! We send cards with money, flowers, and gifts from the heart, congratulating the graduate and letting them know we believe in them.Flowers for Graduates:
Cotton Candy – A fluffy cloud of pink and white flowers. A sweet gift.
Graduation Flowers
3. Starting a CareerWe know the difference between a job and a career. A job pays the bills. A career has opportunities, benefits, and an available path in which to grow. We tell everyone we know when we land a position that fits our interests and talents. The excitement of better pay and a bigger office is too much to keep to ourselves! And we are given applause. Cards. Flowers & gift baskets.A Gift Basket for a New Career:
Gourmet Goodies – Have this delivered to the new office. Great for first days at work!
New Career Gift Basket
4. Getting MarriedSearching for true love is a romantic dream most of us share. Once we have found that special person we want to live our lives with, we celebrate in grand fashion. Planning a wedding can spiral out of control and deplete our bank accounts but they are often the celebrations of a lifetime. We want our wedding day to be perfect – surrounded by loved ones and friends in a beautiful setting with a meaningful ceremony. And in the background are flowers, making a glorious statement. That this is a big milestone!Flowers for Weddings:

Wedding Flowers
5. Celebrating an AnniversaryMarriage is an investment we make in hopes of creating a life together that will last. We celebrate each anniversary with appreciation and, hopefully, growing love and respect. Most women appreciate a night out along with a gift and a classic bouquet of roses.Flowers for Anniversaries:
Two Dozen Red Roses – Or choose roses in her favorite color!
Two Dozen Anniversay Roses
Two Dozen Anniversay Roses
6. Having a ChildBringing a child into the world is not only a milestone, but a miracle. We want to share gifts for the new arrival and the mother to celebrate, to prepare and to welcome. Sending flowers to the hospital is an easy way to be among the first to congratulate!New Baby Flowers:
Baby’s First Wagon – We have new baby girl and new baby boy versions.
New Baby Gift - Baby's First Red Wagon
New Baby Gift of Flowers
7. Getting a PromotionWorking hard and living the American Dream is what we do. And when we are recognized for our hard work, we deserve a celebration! Congratulations cards and flowers are less common for this life milestone, but doubly appreciated.
8. Buying a HomeBuying a home is like putting down roots. You are part of a community, you know where you will raise your children, you know exactly where your furniture will fit. First priority after unpacking? Throwing a celebration party!
9. Starting a BusinessTaking that risk, beleiving in ourselves and a dream, that’s something we admire. We applaud the entrepreneurial spirit. We offer positive words and then we hold our breath. Send a good luck wish!Flowers for a New Business:
Zen Artistry – Elegant and Confident.
New Business Best Wishes
Bold & Confident
10. RetiringA life of hard work, a family grown, a retirement planned. Now is the time to follow dreams and live at your own pace. Celebrate with family and friends.Flowers for the Retiree:
Manhattan Magic – Live the Dream
Congratualtions, Retiree!
Retirement Best Wishe

Match Your Feelings to Our Bouquets

When your emotions are strong and you want to share how you feel with someone special, we have so many options for you online.  And if you don’t find just the right flowers, give us a call at 703-442.-8203.  We have floral advisers who can walk you through a custom design request.  It’s fast and easy!

Happy

Sometimes your heart is so full of happiness you feel like you are going to burst if you don’t share the feeling immediately.  Happiness is one of our favorite reasons for sending flowers.

Happy Flowers
Happy Hearts Bouquet | Starting at $57.95

For more Happy Flowers click here.

In Love

Being in love is a beautiful thing.  Expressing that with a breathtaking bouquet of luxurious flowers is usually always a smart choice.

Beauty | Luxurious Bouquet of 36 Premium Roses | Starting at $175

For more Romantic Flowers click here.

Sad or Empathetic

When life becomes sad because of a loss, oftentimes we aren’t sure how to support our loved ones and friends.   Being there in person is best, of course.  But when you can’t because of obligation or distance, show your heart is there with flowers, plants or gift baskets.

For more sympathy flowers & gifts click here.

Celebratory

Life is full of milestones to celebrate.  Birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, parties, holidays… The list is long.  And we highly recommend congratulating everyone.  Making every event special with flowers on the tables.  Gifting everyone who reached a big goal.  Embrace life and and share!

Celebration Flowers
That Winning Smile | Starting at $92.95

For more celebration flowers click here.

We know there are infinite combinations of feelings on the human emotional spectrum.  But we are confident that we have the right flowers to match your unique mix of feelings.   Flowers are a physical, beautifully visual representation of what you feel like sharing.

Check out our floral designs on our website 24/7.  We have one of the largest inventories in the DC Metro areas and a nationwide network of florists so you can send flowers to almost anyone!

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Minimalism & Extravagance Go Hand In Hand

We live in a time where being extravagant, over the top or even “extra” is the IN thing. However, you can be extravagant and pair it with minimalism as well in everyday life! Every day we hear another friend or acquaintance talking about “downsizing” or “going through things”. It almost seems like minimizing is the new up and coming trend happening when it comes to home decor. Everywhere you see magazines talking about how to down size and organize! All of the pictures they have of the home sections are beautiful, however, not over the top. You can have a gorgeous home without having every nook and cranny filled!

Decorating a home can be a crazy experience! You want to make it look perfect, yet be practical. Well, now less is more! Filling up your house with so many things doesn’t mean it can’t be extravagant! Simple decorating is all it takes!  For instance, instead of having a ton of furniture in your living room like book shelves, coffee table and end tables, you can take some of it out! Add tall lamps that sit on the floor instead of an end table and have a small coffee table instead. You can add extravagance to the room by adding lush curtains or rug, gorgeous artwork to the walls and a couple of decorative pillows to the couches and chairs. You can also get unique pieces that are hand carved or handmade to add extravagance.
Another trend that is crazing the nation are “Tiny Houses”! I have to say, I have a lot of respect for someone who can keep their entire lives in a house that is between 100 and 400 square feet!! Now I know what you’re thinking, yes you can have an amazingly extravagant home that is 400 square feet! There may not be many rooms in these tiny homes, however they have everything you could need from closet space to space for guests to stay! They are beautiful on the inside and out and the perfect way that minimalism and extravagance can be combined! Look at these gorgeous houses! Don’t they make you just want to downsize?!
Other people may take the minimalist approach when it comes to fashion!  You can dress up a simple dress with the perfect accessory! Some of the best pieces to make an outfit extravagant isn’t the outfit itself, it an accessory! You can add a necklace to an outfit to dress up a top that is plain! From a simple chain with a small pendant to a full on bib looking necklace, you can’t go wrong! Another way to add some extravagance to an outfit is a purse! Whether you’re a fan of name brands or something fun you can add pizzazz to the simplest outfit!!
Everyday gestures can also be simple, yet over the top. Have you ever given or received flowers?! From the receiving end, I have to say it feels amazing to get flowers!! I could get a single rose and be over the moon with it! Roses are a classic way to add a smile to someones face! From saying “I love you” to “You did an amazing job” they are the perfect way to add some extravagance to someones day, and house decor!!
 MyFlorist is having a special until the end of the month on Red Roses!! Our 1 dozen, 2 dozen and 3 dozen arrangements are on sale for an INSANE discount!! This is for our local DC Metro area delivery area only!! Check it out guys!!!

Make it a BEACH weekend!!

Here we are mid-July and summer is in full swing!! It’s been more than a little hot and humid in the DC area over the past week! I don’t know about you, but my thermostat and electric bill have been battling it out for the past few weeks to see who can climb the highest! Now seems like the PERFECT time to beat this summer heat by taking a trip to the BEACH!! Near or far we love them all! There are just so many things you can do at the beach! Everyone here LOVES waking up early and watching the sunrise on the beach! Early morning is one of the BEST times to get amazing sea shells too!! Perhaps you’re not a morning person, well that’s ok! Building sandcastles and playing in the water during the day are a sure-fire way to catch up on that tan you’re always working on! Make sure you wear your SPF; sun damage and skin cancer is no joke guys! Maybe you just like to kick back and relax! The best part about the

beach is the boardwalk (and let’s be honest boardwalk fries!!).

Were you aware that the best regions for dolphin sightings in the summer are from Southern Virginia all the way down to Florida?! Lots of different beaches offer boat tours and excursions that take you out into the water for a closer look! If you’re adventurous there are also places that will take you parasailing or scuba diving! I know Ocean City has a TON of things to offer if you’re feeling adventurous!

Remember guys, whether you’re relaxing on the beach, being daring and diving with sharks, or just walking around on the board walk, the beach is an amazing place to kick back and relax! In case you were interested we included some of the top things to do in Ocean City this summer!!

 

http://ococean.com/things-to-do/

 

 

 

Courtesy Of The Red, White & Blue

 

It’s that time of year again! Fireworks, parades, picnics and backyard barbecues! Our nations day of independence is upon us! Independence Day is this Tuesday, but there will be festivities all weekend!! Remember, a floral arrangement is the one of the best ways to decorate for this holiday weekend! Let MyFlorist help you out with all of your holiday centerpiece needs this year!

And as always, remember be safe and smart!!

If you’re looking for ideas on how to celebrate in the district this year, here’s an awesome link!!

https://washington.org/visit-dc/ways-celebrate-independence-day-washington-dc

 

 

Anniversary Season Is Upon Us!!

Wedding season is upon us, which means if you know anyone who has gotten married in May, June or July, it’s anniversary season as well!! Flowers are the perfect way to show how much you care for your special someone or a friend who just had an anniversary! Here at MyFlorist we can create the PERFECT arrangement to say “I Love You” or “Happy Anniversary, My Friend!”! Our arrangements will really wow whoever you’re trying to send to and are an amazing way to say you’re thinking of them.

After you send your leading lady a drop dead gorgeous flower arrangement you have to follow it up with an amazing meal! In case you’re at a loss where to take her for your special day, here is a list of the top 100 restaurants in the DC area for 2017 according to The Washingtonian!!

100 Very Best Restaurants 2017

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Show Dad That You Care

With Father’s Day quickly approaching, here are some tips on small ways you can show dad you care! If your dad is anything like mine, he is not a talker. For the past few years I’ve asked my dad to tell me about his childhood or some of his favorite stories from his life. He doesn’t know it yet, but I’ve recorded every story time and I’ll be giving it to him in the next few years.  Another way to show him that you care is to let him know you still need him! Since my dad is a contractor I am always asking him to help me fix something. Not necessarily have him fix it for me, just help so we can spend some quality time together!  If you dad is the athletic type, take him out to a game! Or even better, challenge him to one! Parks are always free and there are tons of fields in the area! If you’re lucky you can make a day out of it and use the grills some of the parks have as well!! They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach! Another great way to show him you care is making his favorite meal! When I was little I would spend time with my grandmother and she showed me how to make my father’s favorite meal. It took me about 4 years ( I was only 8 when she started teaching me!), but I finally mastered it and now it’s a tradition that he gets it made for him on his birthday and Father’s Day! Just remember, take the time and let him know that you care!!

 

And in case you aren’t a fan of the things above, below is a link of some cool things to do in the DC Metro area for Father’s Day!!

https://www.tripsavvy.com/fathers-day-in-the-washington-dc-area-1039046

 

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Take A Break From The Noise

blog1There are many ways one can take some time to unwind and recharge. Some people meditate, unless you’re like me and can’t sit still long enough for “it to work”, some people vacation, which can be stressful enough just getting ready and planning for a trip, and some people nap. Did you ever stop and think about how flowers can help you with this?
Some people find drinking tea as very calming and soothing, but did you know that Chamomile tea is one of the top choices for calming the nerves? It has been used for thousands of years going back to Ancient Egypt to calm nerves and help with anxiety and stomach ailments, which is where some people find anxiety affects them the most. Lavender has also been used for thousands of years to help with relaxing and calming people. I know when I’ve had a hard day I enjoy a nice bath with a couple drops of Lavender in and let the calmness take me over!
There have also been numerous studies where flowers have made an impact on depressed and stressed out patients in the hospital. Flowers are said to immediately brighten up the day of the recipient and give them energy all day! So, remember whether you get them for yourself or get them for someone else, take time and smell the roses

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The Clean Spring

PHW_372732Three women sat down complaining about the mess in their home. One woman was married with children, the other lived with her partner and the third a single woman that lived by herself. each woman talked about the obstacles they faced in keeping a clean and tidy home. Reasons and excuses were given on how having small children and being working parents means very little time was given for housekeeping, or a messy partner and lack of consideration made it difficult to keep up with house work, or a full social calendar and a spoiled mischievous pet meant all efforts made towards keeping the home in order was made insufficient. But in the end the conversation ended with, “You know, I was never taught how to clean or keep my home in order.” And they all agreed that in fact that is the reason so their present predicament.

HW0_34687Marie Kondo, an organizing and de-cluttering consultant and author on several books on how to keep the home and workplace organized and clean confirms in one of her books that we are never actually taught how to clean neither in our homes or in our schools. We are taught to believe that there are two kinds of people the neat freaks and the messy slobs by nature. we sometimes look around ourselves and say as we shrug our shoulder “I am messy by nature, but it is mess that makes sense and I know where everything is and my mind works better in the chaos”. We all know that is a load of old wilted tulips, right? think of the tie that our mind is overwhelmed. Often, we try alleviate the chaos in our minds by organizing the outside world in the effort to at least control the tangible mess. We hope that by organizing the outside world we can organize the mental.

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Kondo suggests, that one of the best ways of keeping a tidy home is but purging. by keeping only the things that bring us joy and are useful and letting go of all the thing that we don’t need nor are useful nor bring anything positive in our world. so, this spring, also known as the season for cleaning, in other words Spring Cleaning let us take the challenge to keep only the things in life that bring us joy, that serve a purpose, that prove their usefulness and let everything go. We are not talking about just in our physical world. Certainly, do that too. keep your home and work place clean and tidy but use the same philosophy for our mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Let us purge. Let us remove the negative and purge and only keep those things that will make us grow. We are not talking about keeping all the rainbows and unicorns and bunnies, puppies, and cotton candies. Because life is not all rosy. what we mean is use even the negative occurrence in our lives learn from it, embrace it, and grow from it then let it go. there is no pint in holding on to it and letting it clog and clutter us internally.