With age comes experience, With experience comes (hopefully) wisdom. SO it behoves us to learn and soak up everything we can from the sage elderly in our lives and community. Such people are our grandparents. No, they are not good only for candy, silly gifts for Christmas and our birthdays and for us to go when our parents are being “unreasonable” with their demands and unyielding to ours.
Our grandparents have lived. Anything that we could possibly go through in life, they’ve already gone through. Anything that we’ve shed tears for, any heart break, anything that prove to be difficult in life, they have lived and overcome. They know the way. they’ve been there, done that, bought the T-shirt (in some cases literally). Unless we are going through a time in our life that is brand new (no such thing), alien, unheard of and unseen before, then there is no need to re-invent the wheel. It benefits us to go to them and ask. We can learn so so so much.
Some of us lack the patience to sit down and listen to the stories the elderly tell, even if it is our own beloved Nana and Pop Pop. That is very unwise. That is golden knowledge that we cannot get from anyone else that we are ignoring. Wisdom that comes from experience is above and beyond knowledge that comes from simple observation and scholarly research. Now we are not saying that you shouldn’t educate yourself other ways, but why would you pass on free wisdom that comes from a person that’s live it? You need love advise? go to your grandparents. You will learn the dos and don’ts. You need financial advise? Yup, grandparents again. They’ve lived through many many many economic climate through the past years.
But you can’t just take take take all this knowledge and not give. Love them, care for them, visit them, hug them and kiss them. above all LISTEN to them; ven the silly stories and the long winded stories and the stories that really you have no interest in. They deserve it. AND celebrate them. in the grandest way you can. One way we can recommend it, Of course, FLOWERS